Abstract
Queer men of color face pervasive experiences of racism, both in their daily lives and in romantic and sexual contexts (i.e., sexual racism), which carry deleterious effects on their psychological and behavioral well-being. Nevertheless, no studies have examined how racial oppression may impact experiences of interpersonal intimacy among this under-researched community. Grounded in the multidimensional racism-related stress model and intersectionality theory, the present study longitudinally investigated the associations between racial discrimination and sexual racism with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy, as well as the moderating role of self-efficacy. Participants included 177 queer men of color, who completed two surveys six months apart. Controlling for baseline avoidance of interpersonal intimacy, racial discrimination and sexual racism at Wave 1 were not directly longitudinally associated with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2. However, we found a significant interaction effect between racial discrimination and self-efficacy at Wave 1 predicting avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2, as well as between sexual racism and self-efficacy predicting avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Specifically, racial discrimination and sexual racism were longitudinally and positively associated with greater avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at high levels of self-efficacy, but not at low levels. The present study’s novel findings underscore the importance of addressing multilayered racism in queer men of color’s lives and considering the nuanced role of self-efficacy in interpersonal intimacy through social justice-informed research, clinical intervention, and prevention efforts.
Introduction
Queer individuals face unique challenges when navigating experiences of interpersonal intimacy compared to their heterosexual and cisgender counterparts, due to social and structural inequalities related to sexuality and gender (Frost, 2011). Over time, these relational difficulties may lead queer individuals to avoid interpersonal intimacy altogether, increasing risks for poorer well-being (Hatzenbuehler et al., 2010; Riggle et al., 2010). Interpersonal intimacy is a state of closeness and deep mutual understanding, accompanied by feelings of trust, affection, and the sharing of personal thoughts and experiences (Prager, 1995). It encompasses various dimensions, including cognitive, emotional, spiritual, and physical aspects (Reis & Shaver, 1988).
Interpersonal intimacy has primarily been studied among heterosexual and cisgender individuals, with fewer studies dedicated to queer individuals (Hammack et al., 2019). The few studies that have examined interpersonal intimacy among queer populations have found that avoidance of interpersonal intimacy is particularly pertinent among queer men, with 80% of queer men in Elder et al.’s (2015) qualitative study reporting avoiding emotional expression and 90% describing emotional intimacy as risky. Given the high prevalence rates, researchers have examined various sociocultural factors related to sexuality and gender that may influence queer men’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. For instance, Davis and Mehta (2022) found that sexual orientation and gender norms play a dominant role in shaping how gay men construct intimacy in their friendships with other gay and heterosexual men. Research centering queer people broadly indicates that societal devaluation of same-sex sexualities and intimacy results in experiences of stigma for queer people in romantic relationships (Frost, 2011; Frost & Meyer, 2009). Furthermore, according to the intraminority gay community stress theory (Pachankis et al., 2020), queer men also experience stress within the queer community that negatively affects their mental and behavioral health (Assink & Bos, 2024), such as increased engagement in sexual risk behaviors (Burton et al., 2020). Avoidance of interpersonal intimacy among queer men specifically may be attributed to experiences of internalized heterosexism and homophobia (Davis & Mehta, 2022), in which emotional vulnerability may be perceived as “unmasculine” and “girly” (Elder et al., 2015). These numerous barriers may make it challenging for queer men to achieve their needs and goals for interpersonal intimacy (Hatzenbuehler et al., 2010; Riggle et al., 2010), elevating the likelihood of this community avoiding interpersonal intimacy altogether.
The complexity in interpersonal intimacy is further magnified among the subgroup of queer men of color, who face minority stressors related to race that may be intertwined with the effects of sexuality and gender. Research has well-documented that racism permeates queer men of color’s lives, with 84% of queer men of color in Han et al. (2015) reporting facing racial discrimination within the gay community and 65% describing being stressed due to these experiences. A limited yet growing body of research captures how racially relevant factors may shape experiences of interpersonal intimacy among queer men of color. For instance, queer Latine and Black men in Elder et al.’s (2015) qualitative study reported that cultural gender role expectations socialized them to be more intolerant of emotional talk compared to their White counterparts. Additionally, queer Asian men have reported that experiences of racial discrimination in intimacy contexts drove them to engage in sexual risk behaviors (Han, 2007) and seek out taller men as romantic partners (Phan et al., 2026b). Furthermore, research among racial minorities broadly denotes that racial discrimination within romantic relationships may lead to increased trust violation and disconnection (Yampolsky et al., 2023), highlighting the negative effects of racism on experiences of interpersonal intimacy.
Still, despite evidence highlighting that emotional connection and emotional disclosure are critical for relationship satisfaction and longevity (Gottman et al., 2003; McCabe, 1999), and how avoidance of interpersonal intimacy may carry detrimental effects on queer men’s well-being (Greenfield & Thelen, 1997), our understanding of what racially relevant factors may be associated with queer men of color’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy remains scarce. It is particularly important to examine avoidance of interpersonal intimacy as a maladaptive response to racial oppression, considering how coping strategies that involve attempts to avoid sources of stress can result in greater distress (West et al., 2010) and how avoidance coping related to racism-related stressors perpetuates racism’s detrimental effects (Barnes & Lightsey, 2005). Hence, the present study applies Crenshaw’s (1989) intersectionality theory and Harrell’s (2000) multidimensional racism-related stress model to investigate the longitudinal effects of everyday racism and sexual racism on avoidance of interpersonal intimacy among queer men of color, as well as the moderating role of self-efficacy.
Racism
Queer men of color face pervasive experiences of racial discrimination in their daily lives, which have detrimental impacts on their mental health (Layland et al., 2022). Harrell’s (2000) multidimensional model of racism-related stress serves as a useful framework in conceptualizing the effects of racial discrimination on queer men of color’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Here, racism is defined as a system through which members of the dominant group utilize their power and privilege to subordinate persons of non-dominant communities based on racial identity designations, excluding them from power, esteem, status, or access to resources. Harrell (2000) posits that racial minorities face racial oppression from various sources in life, which causes significant psychological distress and negatively impacts their well-being. The racism literature has well-documented the associations between racial discrimination and poor mental and behavioral health outcomes among queer men of color, including depression and anxiety (Choi et al., 2013), alcohol use disorder (Souleymanov et al., 2020), and sexual risky behaviors (Han et al., 2015).
It is also possible that racism will be longitudinally and positively associated with greater avoidance of interpersonal intimacy among queer men of color. A few studies provide a glimpse into how forces of racism negatively impact racial minorities’ experiences with intimacy, particularly among Black adults. For instance, Perkins (2025) highlights that chronic exposure to racism may lead to race-based traumatic stress among Black Americans, negatively impacting their emotional regulation and ability to form stable, long-term memory, which may hinder their experience of intimacy and increase feelings of isolation within relationships. As a result, racial discrimination may lead to lower relationship satisfaction and greater relationship conflict among Black romantic relationships (Wallace et al., 2025). These findings may extend to queer men of color, where the association between racism and relational conflicts and intimacy difficulties may make queer men of color feel discouraged in their ability to achieve meaningful interpersonal intimacy over time, driving them to use avoidance as a form of self-protection. Furthermore, the stress from racial discrimination in queer men of color’s lives may drive them to exhibit behaviors such as displaying less warmth and more hostility in their relational interactions (Rice et al., 2023; Walker, 2020). Consequently, queer men of color facing racism may avoid interpersonal intimacy to prevent themselves from engaging in these undesirable behaviors that may negatively impact their loved ones.
Sexual Racism
In addition to racism, queer men of color face pervasive racial oppression within romantic and sexual contexts, a phenomenon known as sexual racism (Stember, 1978). Coupled with Harrell’s (2000) model of racism-related stress, Crenshaw’s (1989) intersectionality theory serves as a critical framework in understanding queer men of color’s experiences with sexual racism. Originally conceptualized to highlight Black women’s multidimensional identities at the crossroads of race and gender, intersectionality theory has been extended to examine the multilayered experiences of queer men of color, including sexual racism (Bhambhani et al., 2023). Sexual racism manifests as racial exclusion, racial denigration, sexual objectification, and fetishization targeting queer men of color in the White-dominated dating and sexual world (Bhambhani et al., 2023; Paul et al., 2010). Research examining sexual racism has documented the negative effects of this insidious form of racial oppression on queer men of color’s psychological and behavioral health outcomes, including depression, anxiety, loneliness, stress, alcohol and drug use, and risky sexual behaviors (Bhambhani et al., 2020, 2023), body dissatisfaction (Bhambhani et al., 2019), as well as suicidal ideation and self-injury (Hidalgo et al., 2020).
In addition to negative mental health outcomes, sexual racism may be longitudinally and positively associated with greater avoidance of interpersonal intimacy among queer men of color. This hypothesized association may be explained by the damaging effects of sexual racism on queer men of color’s self-concept. Sexual racism often glorifies queer White male bodies as possessing the ideal physical traits while relegating queer men of color to the bottom of the racialized hierarchy of attractiveness (Bhambhani et al., 2023; Callander et al., 2015; Stacey & Forbes, 2022). Consequently, experiences of sexual racism may lead queer men of color to question their self-worth and desirability (Han, 2007), carrying damaging effects on their self-esteem (Thai, 2020). Similar to how people with low self-esteem may engage in intimacy-limiting behaviors (Forest et al., 2023), queer men of color facing sexual racism may progressively avoid interpersonal intimacy out of fear of being rejected by others. This act of avoidance may also serve as a form of self-protection for queer men of color to evade feelings of marginalization, psychological distress, and anxiety stemming from sexual racism experiences (Bhambhani et al., 2019; Han & Choi, 2018). Furthermore, similar to how racial fetishization, a form of sexual racism (Bhambhani et al., 2023), makes queer men of color feel as if they are incapable of forming intimate social connections (Stacey & Forbes, 2022), exposure to sexual racism may over time reduce queer men of color’s confidence in their ability to achieve intimacy, driving them to avoid experiences of interpersonal intimacy altogether.
Self-Efficacy as a Moderator
According to Harrell’s (2000) model of racism-related stress, self-efficacy is one of the internal characteristics that may affect the association between racial oppression and health outcomes among racial minorities. Self-efficacy is an individual’s perceived capabilities in managing stressful and challenging situations (Bandura, 1977). Higher self-efficacy is linked with various positive health outcomes, including reductions in symptoms of depression, anxiety, vital exhaustion, and daily stress, increases in active problem-focused coping, and greater levels of optimism, self-regulation, and self-esteem (Luszczynska et al., 2009; Romppel et al., 2013; Schonfeld et al., 2016).
It is possible that self-efficacy may buffer against the longitudinal effects of racism and sexual racism on queer men of color’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy, in which the associations between racism, sexual racism, and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy are only significant and positive at low levels of self-efficacy, but not at high levels. Self-efficacy’s protective effects may be explained by how studies have shown that queer men of color are not passive recipients of racial oppression. For instance, Han and Choi’s (2018) qualitative study highlights that queer men of color actively engage in resistance against racism by creating a non-White gay aesthetic that allows them to feel more authentic as queer men of color. It is possible that among queer men of color with high levels of self-efficacy, they may persist in relational pursuits in the face of everyday racism and sexual racism, knowing that they have the capacity to create change and challenge the effects of racial oppression. Additionally, self-efficacy is associated with greater critical consciousness among people of color (Stamps & Johnson, 2025). Perhaps among queer men of color with high levels of self-efficacy, their critical awareness of how their avoidance is a product of racial oppression may drive them to persevere in the face of White supremacy as a form of resistance. On the contrary, considering how students of color with high levels of racial coping self-efficacy are less likely to be affected by experiences of racial microaggressions (Collins & Stevenson, 2023), queer men of color with low levels of self-efficacy may be more vulnerable to negative psychological consequences when facing racial discrimination and sexual racism, making them more likely to avoid interpersonal intimacy as a coping mechanism.
The Present Study
The present study applies an intersectionality-grounded, longitudinal approach to provide a culturally informed understanding of what factors affect queer men of color’s willingness to engage in interpersonal intimacy by investigating the effects of racism, sexual racism, and self-efficacy on avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. First, we hypothesize that both racism and sexual racism at Wave 1 will be positively associated with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2. Second, we hypothesize that self-efficacy at Wave 1 will moderate the associations between racism and sexual racism with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Specifically, racial discrimination and sexual racism will be positively associated with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at low levels of self-efficacy, but not at high levels.
Method
Participants
Sample Demographics
Note. The total percentage for gender and sexual orientation exceeds 100% since some participants identified with multiple identities in each category.
Procedure
All procedures for the current study were executed online, and the study received approval from the Institutional Review Board at a large mid-Atlantic university before data collection. To participate in the study, participants had to meet three eligibility criteria: (1) identify as a queer man of color, (2) live in the U.S., and (3) be 18 years or older. Recruitment was completed through contacting organizations that serve queer men of color. Participants were also recruited through various online forums and webpages (e.g., Facebook). Participants who met the inclusion criteria filled out informed consent and then completed a 10 to 15-min survey, which included a series of questionnaires related to demographic items, the study’s variables of interest, and two validity check items (e.g., “To indicate that you are paying attention, please select ‘Often’ for this item”) at Wave 1. After six months from the completion of the first survey, the research team followed up with participants via email to complete the second survey. Participants were compensated $15 for completing the first survey and $20 for completing the second survey.
Measures
Demographics
At Wave 1 of the study, participants completed demographic items related to ethnicity, race, educational attainment, income, age, gender, generational status, sexual orientation, and whether they were born in the United States or abroad.
Racial Discrimination
The Everyday Discrimination Scale (EDS; Williams et al., 1997) was used to capture experiences of racial discrimination at Wave 1. Since the original items did not specify the role of race/ethnicity in relation to experiences of discrimination, items were modified slightly so that participants in the present study were instructed to think explicitly about discrimination related to their racial/ethnic identity (Le & Iwamoto, 2019, 2022). Participants rated nine items about their experiences of racial discrimination (e.g., “You are treated with less respect than other people because of your race/ethnicity”) on a 6-point Likert-type scale ranging from 1 (Never) to 6 (Almost everyday). Items were summed to generate a sum score, with higher scores denoting a greater frequency of racism experiences. The EDS has provided adequate reliability and validity in samples of African American and Latine American college students (Lui, 2020) and Asian American college students (Atkin & Tran, 2020). The version of the scale revised to target race/ethnicity has provided adequate reliability among samples of college men of color (Cronbach’s alpha = .94; Le & Iwamoto, 2022) and Asian American college students (Cronbach’s alpha = .92; Le & Iwamoto, 2019). The revised EDS produced a Cronbach’s alpha of .94 among queer men of color in the present study.
Sexual Racism
Experiences of racial discrimination within romantic and/or dating contexts were captured at Wave 1 using the Experienced Sexual Racism Items (Bhambhani et al., 2020), derived from Han et al.’s (2015) Sexual Racism Scale. Participants completed five items about how often they faced experiences of sexual racism either online or in-person (e.g., “I have experienced discrimination on mobile dating/hook up apps (Tinder, Grindr, Jack’D, Scruff) on the basis of my race/ethnicity”) and one item about whether stress accompanied these racist encounters (e.g., “When I have experienced any discrimination on mobile apps/Internet/real life because of my race/ethnicity, I have been stressed about it”). Participants rated all items on a 4-point Likert-type scale ranging from 1 (Never) to 4 (Most of the time). Scores across the two subscales were summed, such that higher total scores indicated a greater frequency of sexual racism experiences. The scale has provided adequate reliability among samples of queer Asian American men (Cronbach’s alpha = .87; Phan & Le, 2025; Cronbach’s alpha = .89; Phan et al., 2026a) and queer men of color (Cronbach’s alpha = .89; Bhambhani et al., 2020). Cronbach’s alpha for the present study was .88.
Self-Efficacy
The General Self-Efficacy Scale-6 (GSE-6; Romppel et al., 2013), a revised version of the General Self-Efficacy Scale (GSE; Schwarzer & Jerusalem, 1995), was utilized to capture participants’ confidence in their ability to manage difficult situations at Wave 1. Participants rated six items (e.g., “I am confident that I could deal efficiently with unexpected events”) on a 4-point Likert-type scale ranging from 1 (Not true at all) to 4 (Exactly true). A sum score was produced, with higher total scores indicating greater self-efficacy. The measure development study demonstrated evidence of concurrent validity, denoted by negative associations between the GSE-6 and symptoms of depression, anxiety, and vital exhaustion, as well as predictive validity, test-retest reliability, and internal consistency reliability (Cronbach’s alpha = .79; Romppel et al., 2013). The GSE-6 has also reported adequate reliability among a sample of queer Asian American men (Cronbach’s alpha = .85; Le & Kler, 2024). The GSE-6 produced a Cronbach’s alpha of .85 among queer men of color in the present study.
Avoidance of Interpersonal Intimacy
The Avoidance of Interpersonal Intimacy subscale from the Functional Idiographic Assessment Template-Questionnaire-Short Form (FIAT-Q-SF), derived from the FIAT-Q (Darrow et al., 2014), was used to measure participants’ levels of avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 1 and Wave 2. Participants rated eight items (e.g., “I do not want to share things about myself with others”) on a 6-point Likert-type scale ranging from 1 (Strongly disagree) to 6 (Strongly agree). All items were summed to produce a total score, with higher scores indicating greater levels of avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. The measure development study provided evidence of divergent and convergent validity, indicated by the scale’s positive correlation with psychological distress and negative correlation with life satisfaction, and test-retest reliability for the original FIAT-Q, as well as adequate reliability for the Avoidance of Interpersonal Intimacy subscale (Cronbach’s alpha = .82, Darrow et al., 2014). The subscale yielded a Cronbach’s alpha of .89 at Wave 1 and .91 at Wave 2 among queer men of color in the present study.
Data Analytic Plan
The research team established the data analytic plan before conducting data analysis. We used Mplus Version 8.1 (Muthén & Muthén, 1998–2017) and SPSS (v.29) to execute all analyses, and alpha values p < .05 were considered statistically significant. To include data from all participants with missing data, the maximum likelihood estimation with robust standard errors estimator was utilized to handle missing data. Two waves of data were used in the model: October 2021 to February 2022 (Wave 1) and April 2022 to August 2022 (Wave 2, six months after the completion of the first survey). Wave 1 data included racial discrimination, sexual racism, self-efficacy, and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy, and Wave 2 data included avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Multivariate outliers and multicollinearity were investigated. To assess the data’s normality, kurtosis and skewness were also examined. After investigating bivariate correlations between the study’s primary and demographic variables, we mean-centered the three independent variables and conducted two multiple regression models to examine whether the associations between racism and sexual racism at Wave 1 with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2 were moderated by self-efficacy at Wave 1. To evaluate the respective model fits, three indices were used: comparative fit index (CFI; .95 or above; Hu & Bentler, 1999), rootmean-square error of approximation (RMSEA; .08 or less; Browne & Cudeck, 1993), and the standardized root-mean-square residual (SRMR; .08 or less; Hu & Bentler, 1999). Then, we input both models in Mplus Version 8.1 (Muthén & Muthén, 1998–2017) and entered income and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 1 as covariates, given their significant correlations with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2, and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2 as the outcome variable. For the first model, we entered the racial discrimination variable, the self-efficacy variable, and the interaction term. For the second model, we entered the sexual racism variable, the self-efficacy variable, and the interaction term. For each significant interaction, we probed their effects at one standard deviation (SD) above and below the mean.
Results
In the present sample, 93.8% of participants reported experiencing racial discrimination, and 87.5% of the participants reported experiencing sexual racism, underscoring the common and persistent nature of racial oppression in participants’ lives. The study’s main variables of interest yielded kurtosis values ranging from −70 to .61 and skewness values ranging from −.18 to .91, both of which were within the acceptable range (George & Mallery, 2010). Little’s Missing Completely at Random (MCAR) analysis revealed a nonsignificant chi-square statistic χ2(8) = 12.16, p = .14, indicating that data were missing completely at random. Therefore, following Parent’s (2013) recommendations to address missing data, the maximum likelihood estimation with robust standard errors estimator was executed in Mplus, and pairwise deletion was utilized in SPSS to include data from all participants with missing data. Regarding concerns with multivariate outliers and multicollinearity among the racial discrimination, sexual racism, and self-efficacy measures, we found that variance inflation factor and tolerance scores were in the acceptable range.
Correlation Analyses
Correlations Matrix of Variables of Interest
Note. AII = Avoidance of Interpersonal Intimacy. W1 = Wave 1; W2 = Wave 2; Variables followed by W1 were assessed between October 2021 and February 2022; Variables followed by W2 were assessed between April 2022 and August 2022.
*p < .05, **p < .01.
Main Results
Multiple Regression Models With Racial Discrimination, Sexual Racism, and Self-Efficacy on Avoidance of Interpersonal Intimacy
Note. IV = Independent Variable; AII = Avoidance of Interpersonal Intimacy; SE = Standard Error.
*p < .05. **p < .01. ***p < .001.
For the first model, inconsistent with our hypothesis, after controlling for income and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 1, racial discrimination at Wave 1 was not significantly associated with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2. However, we found a significant interaction effect between racial discrimination and self-efficacy predicting avoidance of interpersonal intimacy (see Figure 1). When examining simple slope analysis, we found that racial discrimination was significantly and positively associated with greater avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at high levels of self-efficacy (b = .21, p < .001). However, the link between racial discrimination and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy was nonsignificant at low levels of self-efficacy (b = −.11, p = .052). In other words, high levels of self-efficacy exacerbated the association between racial discrimination and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Figure 1 displays this model. The moderating effect of self-efficacy on the association between racial discrimination and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy
For the second model, inconsistent with our hypothesis, after controlling for income and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 1, sexual racism at Wave 1 was not significantly associated with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2. However, we found an interaction effect between sexual racism and self-efficacy predicting avoidance of interpersonal intimacy (see Figure 2). When examining simple slope analysis, we found that sexual racism was significantly and positively associated with greater avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at high levels of self-efficacy (b = .36, p < .05). However, the link between sexual racism and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy became nonsignificant at low levels of self-efficacy (b = −.26, p = .11). In other words, high levels of self-efficacy exacerbated the association between sexual racism and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Figure 2 displays this model. The moderating effect of self-efficacy on the association between sexual racism and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy
Discussion
To our knowledge, this is the first study to investigate the associations between racial discrimination and sexual racism with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy among queer men of color, as well as the moderating role of self-efficacy. Incongruent with our first hypothesis, neither racism nor sexual racism at Wave 1 were directly longitudinally associated with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2. Furthermore, contrary to our hypothesized moderation, the associations between racism and sexual racism at Wave 1 and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2 were significant at high levels of self-efficacy at Wave 1, but not at low levels. Our significant moderated longitudinal findings contribute to Harrell’s (2000) racism-related stress model and Crenshaw’s (1989) intersectionality theory by highlighting the pernicious longitudinal effects of two forms of racial oppression and self-efficacy on avoidance of interpersonal intimacy among queer men of color. Furthermore, the present study advances the extant racism literature by indicating that, in addition to poor psychological (e.g., depression, anxiety, suicidality; Bhambhani et al., 2023; Hidalgo et al., 2020) and behavioral health outcomes (i.e., sexual risk behaviors, hazardous alcohol use; Han et al., 2015; Souleymanov et al., 2020), everyday racism and sexual racism also negatively impact queer men of color’s experience with interpersonal intimacy, depending on self-efficacy. Moreover, the exacerbating role of self-efficacy in the present study adds to the mixed findings in existing research regarding its typically positive influence (Schiaffino et al., 1991; Schonfeld et al., 2017).
Inconsistent with our first hypothesis, racial discrimination and sexual racism at Wave 1 were not directly longitudinally associated with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy at Wave 2. This lack of significant effect may be explained by applying a strengths-based perspective. Several queer men of color in Han and Choi’s (2018) qualitative study reported acknowledging that sexual racism is a racist act and thus should be confronted as a form of racial oppression. Hence, queer men of color in the present study may resist racial oppression by engaging in various coping strategies, including participating in racial justice movements and engaging in self-reflection or therapy (Choi et al., 2011; Le et al., 2025a, 2025b). These effective coping strategies may thus reduce queer men of color’s engagement in avoidance of interpersonal intimacy as a form of self-protection. Additionally, queer men of color in the present study may possess high critical consciousness and recognize that the racism that they face in online and offline dating venues is due to racialized systems, allowing them to persist in their intimacy pursuits instead of avoiding them. However, given that we did not collect data on these specific strengths-based variables, these ideas are speculative and merit additional empirical examination.
Self-Efficacy as Moderator
In terms of our moderation hypothesis, we found an unexpected effect in which the associations between racial discrimination and sexual racism with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy were significant and positive at high levels of self-efficacy, but not at low levels. While the exacerbating role of self-efficacy observed here is contrary to some previous studies that demonstrated the positive effects of self-efficacy (Luszczynska et al., 2009; Romppel et al., 2013), our finding also corroborates mixed findings in the literature. For instance, Schonfeld et al. (2017) highlight how individuals with high levels of self-efficacy are more likely to experience psychological stress and decreases in performance. Similarly, higher self-efficacy has been associated with greater symptoms of depression among adult patients diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis who experience high levels of pain (Schiaffino et al., 1991). Building upon these findings, the uncontrollable nature of everyday racism and sexual racism may lead to feelings of helplessness among queer men of color with high levels of self-efficacy, since their inability to control the situation is incongruent with perceived ability to handle difficult situations. Consequently, feelings of overwhelm may drive queer men of color with high self-efficacy to avoid interpersonal intimacy as a form of self-protection.
Additionally, we apply Pachankis and Hatzenbuehler’s (2013) “Best Little Boy in the World” hypothesis to explain the present study’s unexpected moderation effect. Here, the authors posit that sexual minority men may cope with experiences of heterosexism and sexual minority stigma by investing their time and energy in achievement-related success, including academics, appearance, and competition. This theory suggests that sexual minority men may thus avoid intrapersonal and interpersonal intimacy and instead focus on achievement to minimize the psychological pain of discrimination. Applying this hypothesis to queer men of color with high self-efficacy, queer men of color with high self-efficacy may be particularly prone to diverting their energy and attention to achievement when faced with exposure to everyday racism and sexual racism over time, thereby intensifying the positive associations between racism and sexual racism with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Similar patterns have been observed among both heterosexual and queer Asian American men (Keum et al., 2023; Le et al., 2025a), some of whom turn to goal-directed professional activities, activism, and/or advocacy to cope with and resist White supremacy. Conversely, queer men of color with low self-efficacy may feel less capable of managing everyday racism and sexual racism, leaving them with fewer alternative outlets to redirect their energy. As a result, they may be more willing to persist in experiences of interpersonal intimacy, rendering the associations between everyday racism and sexual racism with avoidance of interpersonal intimacy non-significant at low levels of self-efficacy.
Limitations and Strengths
Despite the study’s novelty as the first to our knowledge to apply a longitudinal design to examine the links between racial oppression, self-efficacy, and avoidance of interpersonal intimacy among queer men of color, its findings should be interpreted with some limitations. First, the present study homogenized subgroups of queer men of color, which may mask potential racial and ethnic differences regarding experiences of racial oppression, self-efficacy, and intimacy (Agishtein & Brumbaugh, 2013; Mao et al., 2004; Powell et al., 2023; Yuan et al., 2016). For instance, men of color face varying manifestations of gendered racial stereotypes, in which Asian men are emasculated as effeminate and submissive (Callander et al., 2015; Han et al., 2015), Black men are hypersexualized as dominant and aggressive (Fields et al., 2012), and Latino men are exoticized as sexually adventurous and passionate (Carballo-Diéguez et al., 2004). Additionally, experiences of colorism pervade the queer community (Stacey & Forbes, 2022), rendering queer Latino men with darker skin more vulnerable to experiencing racism compared to those with lighter skin tones (Wilson et al., 2009). Therefore, future research should examine how racial oppression may differentially affect experiences of interpersonal intimacy among specific groups of queer men of color. Furthermore, the present study did not account for differences in other demographics, such as gender identity. Considering how transgender people of color face oppression at the intersection of racism and cisgenderism in their daily lives (Farvid et al., 2021), and how transgender folks frequently face marginalization and feelings of isolation when navigating experiences of intimacy (Marshall et al., 2020), future research may expand on the present study to examine how intersectional forces of racism may impact transgender men of color’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy. Future studies may also replicate the present study with a larger sample of queer men of color to bolster the generalizability of the findings.
With these drawbacks in mind, the present study still carries notable strengths. First, the study was grounded in the well-established frameworks of Crenshaw’s (1989) intersectionality theory and Harrell’s (2000) multidimensional racism-related stress model. Second, the present study utilized a longitudinal design, allowing us to identify the effects of everyday racism and sexual racism on queer men of color’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy over time. Lastly, the present study advances Pachankis and Hatzenbuehler’s (2013) “Best Little Boy in the World” hypothesis by extending the effects of oppression related to sexual orientation to oppressive structures related to race through demonstrating the deleterious effects of racism and sexual racism.
Implications for Practice, Advocacy, Research, and Prevention
The present study’s intersectional and longitudinal findings carry nuanced implications for future social justice-informed research, clinical interventions, and prevention efforts. As the first study to provide insights into queer men of color’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy, we encourage future research to continue expanding this limited literature to enhance our collective understanding of sociocultural forces that influence queer men of color’s relational well-being. Given the exacerbating effects of self-efficacy, future studies may continue integrating a strengths-based perspective to explore protective factors that may mitigate the effects of everyday racism and sexual racism on queer men of color’s avoidance of interpersonal intimacy, such as resistance and empowerment against racism (Suyemoto et al., 2022), collective racial self-esteem (Sanders et al., 2024), and racial/ethnic socialization (Umaña-Taylor & Hill, 2020Umaña‐Taylor & Hill, 2020). Future research may also extend this work by exploring self-efficacy within specific areas of queer men of color’s lives. For example, scholars might draw on Collins and Stevenson’s (2023) conceptualization of domain-specific racial coping self-efficacy when investigating the impact of racial oppression on queer men of color’s experience with intimacy.
Transitioning into clinical implications, when working with queer men of color with high self-efficacy, clinicians may consider exploring whether their clients engage in avoidance of interpersonal intimacy as a coping mechanism in response to everyday racism and sexual racism. This may look like providing psychoeducation for clients to utilize their self-efficacy adaptively, such as directly channeling their perceived ability to handle difficult situations into experiences of interpersonal intimacy to reduce avoidance behaviors. Clinicians may benefit from collaborating with their queer male clients of color to develop active resistance strategies by consulting Han & Choi, 2018; Le et al., 2025a empowerment-based findings, including building affirmative communities with fellow queer men of color, participating in racial justice advocacy, and distancing from Whiteness. Given that critical consciousness is a prerequisite for liberation (Prilleltensky, 2003, 2008), we encourage clinicians to name sexual racism as an inherently racist experience and provide psychoeducation for queer men of color to use this critical understanding to work toward disrupting systemic oppression and enhancing their own well-being (Callander et al., 2015; Han & Choi, 2018).
Nevertheless, the burden of addressing racial oppression should not fall solely on queer men of color; instead, prevention efforts should focus on reducing queer men of color’s exposure to everyday racism and sexual racism in the first place. We recommend that college campuses, particularly predominantly White universities, and workplaces implement intersectional policies that delineate clear consequences for acts of racism against queer men of color (Byrd et al., 2019). Institutions should also invest in efforts to diversify their workforces with more queer men of color to create more inclusive and equitable work environments. Considering how queer men of color face pervasive experiences of sexual racism in online geosocial networking platforms (English et al., 2024), we encourage preventionists to integrate digital literacy resources that educate queer White male users on what sexual racism may look like (i.e., sexual exclusion, racial fetishization) and how this form of racial oppression carries deleterious effects on queer men of color’s well-being. We also recommend that geosocial networking developers integrate a zero-tolerance policy for both racism and sexual racism on these platforms as a deliberate and active effort to protect queer men of color. Lastly, to reduce avoidance of interpersonal intimacy, geosocial networking applications may consider disseminating LGBTQ-affirming resources for their queer men of color users, which may foster positive identity development and interpersonal relationships (Puckett et al., 2017).
Footnotes
Acknowledgements
This material is based upon work supported by the National Science Foundation Graduate Research Fellowship Program under Grant No. 2233001. Any opinions, findings, and conclusions or recommendations expressed in this material are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the National Science Foundation. Additionally, the authors would like to thank Amber Pasha for her extensive support with survey design and data collection.
Ethical Considerations
This study was approved by the Institutional Review Board at a large mid-Atlantic university before data collection.
Consent to Participate
Informed consent was obtained from all individual participants included in the study.
Author Contributions
Author TL designed the study. Authors LA and PP facilitated the statistical analyses and led the statistical analyses. Author PP wrote the first draft of the manuscript. Authors LA and TL provided feedback and supervision on the writing of the manuscript. All authors contributed to and approved the final manuscript.
Funding
The authors disclosed receipt of the following financial support for the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article: The present study was funded by the third author's Faculty-Student Research Grant Award from the University of Maryland.
Declaration of Conflicting Interests
The authors declared no potential conflicts of interest with respect to the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article.
Data Availability Statement
Data is available upon request from the first author.
Open Science Statement
As part of IARR's encouragement of open research practices, the authors have provided the following information: This research was not pre-registered. The data used in the research are available upon request from the first author by emailing pqphan@asu.edu. The materials used in the research are available upon request from the first author by emailing pqphan@asu.edu.
