Abstract
Socially anxious individuals struggle with establishing and maintaining social relationships. We hypothesized that, when socially anxious, people often turn to nostalgia, which alleviates the interpersonal competence deficits that accompany social anxiety. We tested and supported this hypothesis in six studies (N = 1,858), three preregistered. In cross-sectional Study 1, higher (compared with lower) social anxiety individuals more frequently identified interpersonal incompetence as a trigger of nostalgia. In cross-sectional Study 2, social anxiety was associated negatively with interpersonal competence, but positively with nostalgia, which in turn predicted higher interpersonal competence. In the final four studies, we tested causation. Although social anxiety reduced interpersonal competence, it also triggered nostalgia (Studies 3–3S), and nostalgia increased interpersonal competence (Studies 4–5).
Social anxiety is observed across ages (Gretarsdottir et al., 2004; Mohammadi et al., 2020) and cultures, as 23% of individuals worldwide report suffering from it (Jefferies & Ungar, 2020). Due to fear of unfavorable interpersonal evaluation, social anxiety stands in the way of establishing and maintaining social relationships (Alden & Taylor, 2004), and even conduces to substance abuse (Buckner et al., 2021). Thus, effective strategies to alleviate it are needed. Nostalgia is a psychological resource that counteracts discomfort, strengthening social connectedness and interpersonal competence (Sedikides et al., 2015). We propose and test the idea that nostalgia counteracts reductions in interpersonal competence caused by social anxiety.
Social Anxiety and Interpersonal Competence
Social anxiety is characterized by fear and avoidance of unfavorable evaluation in social situations (Morrison & Heimberg, 2013). According to the cognitive-behavioral model, social anxiety results from the gap between an undesirable self-image and high expected standards for social performance (Heimberg et al., 2010). On one hand, people with social anxiety focus on and exaggerate the uncomplimentary aspects of their self-image (Mellings & Alden, 2000). Furthermore, they actively reinforce an unfavorable self-evaluation by paying more attention to signals of negative (Staugaard, 2010) rather than positive (Dawel et al., 2019) judgments. On the other hand, people with social anxiety assume that others hold high standards for them and are inherently critical of them (Rapee & Heimberg, 1997). The overestimation of others’ unfavorable appraisals elevates their anxiety in social situations.
Interpersonal competence refers to one’s perceived ability to enact effective social behaviors within their relationships, such as starting conversations, expressing negative feelings, sharing appropriately with others, providing emotional support to others, and coping with conflict (Buhrmester et al., 1988). Such social behaviors contribute to relationship establishment, development, maintenance, and satisfaction (Lipton & Nelson, 1980).
Social anxiety may impede interpersonal competence. Due to fear of unfavorable evaluation, individuals high on social anxiety adopt withdrawal tendencies and avoidance behavior, further lowering their interpersonal competence (Moscovitch et al., 2013; Okajima et al., 2009). Uneasiness caused by social anxiety, such as blushing, sweating, and trembling, also engenders deficits in interpersonal competence (Morrison & Heimberg, 2013). Indeed, social anxiety is negatively associated with interpersonal competence (Kuder & Grover, 2014; Starr & Davila, 2008). Furthermore, individuals high on social anxiety self-disclose less to family members, friends, partners, and strangers (Gee et al., 2013) and are less assertive (Spokas et al., 2009) as they believe that by expressing negativity in interactions they increase the likelihood of social rejection (Spokas et al., 2009). Relatedly, they often fail to manage interpersonal conflict effectively, minimizing eye contact and wanting to end conversation during conflict (Langer et al., 2016). However, no studies have addressed the causal impact of social anxiety on interpersonal incompetence. We aimed to do so.
The literature has been concerned with strategies to alleviate social anxiety (Chesham et al., 2018; Ştefan et al., 2018), such as cognitive reappraisals via imagery rescripts and video feedback (Kivity & Huppert, 2016; Warnock-Parkes et al., 2017). Such strategies require several weeks, or even months, of training, and so are not readily available to all. Mindfulness is another suggested strategy (Ştefan et al., 2018), but it also requires or benefits from professional instruction. Moreover, social media provide a plausible interaction platform for socially anxious persons, but it poses a risk of increasing the probability of internet use dependence or addiction (O’Day & Heimberg, 2021; Prizant-Passal et al., 2016). Thus, an easy-to-implement, accessible strategy for alleviating social anxiety is needed. We propose that nostalgia constitutes such a strategy. Not only can nostalgia counteract social anxiety but it can also increase interpersonal competence.
Nostalgia, Social Anxiety, and Interpersonal Competence: The Regulatory Model
We define nostalgia as a sentimental longing for one’s past. When people feel nostalgic, they think of their past fondly, warmly, and longingly (Leunissen, 2023; Sedikides & Wildschut, 2016). Nostalgic memories typically pertain to close others or momentous events from one’s life that were shared with close others (Juhl & Biskas, 2023). Prototype analyses of “nostalgia” reinforce the sociality of the emotion, showing that “social relationships” and “childhood/youth” are central features of it (Hepper et al., 2012). Individuals experience nostalgia frequently (several times a week; Hepper et al., 2021), and across ages (Madoglou et al., 2017) or cultures (Hepper et al., 2014).
Nostalgia is a psychological resource that can be implemented in time of need. Often, in the face of psychological discomfort (e.g., meaninglessness, loneliness, boredom), individuals resort to nostalgia; in turn, nostalgia soothes their discomfort (Abeyta et al., 2020; Routledge et al., 2011; Seehusen et al., 2013; Van Tilburg et al., 2013; Zhou et al., 2022). This is the regulatory model of nostalgia (Wildschut & Sedikides, 2023b). More formally, the model (depicted in Figure 1) not only postulates that an adverse event has a negative influence on one’s psychological state (Path c) but also intensifies nostalgia (Path a). Nostalgia, in turn, has a positive influence on one’s psychological state (Path b). Nostalgia, then, functions as a balancing feedback mechanism that restores or maintains homeostasis. Statistically, these patterns amount to inconsistent (or suppressed) mediation (MacKinnon et al., 2000). Here, the direct effect of a predictor (i.e., an adverse event) is directionally opposite to its indirect effect via a mediator (i.e., nostalgia). Controlling the mediator’s countervailing influence, the opposing direct effect of the predictor is strengthened (path c’).

The Regulatory Model of Nostalgia
Applying the regulatory model to our research, the adverse event in Figure 1 is social anxiety, the psychological state is interpersonal competence, and the mediator is nostalgia. Social anxiety is associated with reductions in (or directly reduces) interpersonal competence, while being associated with rises in (or directly increasing) nostalgia. Nostalgia is associated with higher (or directly augments) interpersonal competence.
We reviewed literature on the negative link between social anxiety and interpersonal competence. No literature exists on the relation between social anxiety and nostalgia. However, given that aversiveness has been known to be associated with, or elicit, nostalgia (Sedikides et al., 2015; Wang et al., 2023), we expected a positive relation (correlational or experimental) between social anxiety and emotion. Socially anxious individuals would seek refuge in nostalgia.
Furthermore, we expected that nostalgia would elevate (or be associated with rises in) interpersonal competence, thus counteracting the negative influence of social anxiety on interpersonal competence. Nostalgia is a social emotion (Sedikides & Wildschut, 2019). It is associated with or fosters a sense of social connectedness (Evans et al., 2021; Juhl & Biskas, 2023) and social support (Turner et al., 2013; Zhou et al., 2008), which raise interpersonal competence (Persich & Robinson, 2022). Furthermore, nostalgia is associated with or fosters empathy (Juhl et al., 2019; Zhou et al., 2012), confidence to seek help from others (Juhl et al., 2021), and physical proximity with an anticipated social interactant (Stephan et al., 2014; Turner et al., 2012). In addition, experimentally-induced nostalgia kindles willingness to launch a relationship, as well as confidence and optimism in resolving relationship conflict (Abeyta et al., 2015). More directly, experimentally-induced nostalgia increases interpersonal competence (as assessed by the Interpersonal Competence Questionnaire; Buhrmester et al., 1988), specifically initiating interactions and relationships, self-disclosing personal information, and providing emotional support to others (Wildschut et al., 2006).
Overview
We propose that nostalgia alleviates the interpersonal competence deficits associated with, or caused by, social anxiety. In a test of the regulatory model, we hypothesize that social anxiety conduces to reductions in, or decreases, interpersonal competence. At the same time, social anxiety is positively linked to, or instigates, nostalgia; in turn, nostalgia is positively related to, or raises, interpersonal competence. Stated otherwise, nostalgia counteracts the negative effect of social anxiety on interpersonal competence.
We tested the regulatory model in six studies, one of which (3S) we report in Supplemental Material. Following a proof-of-concept investigation (Study 1), we used both a measurement-of-mediation design (Study 2) and an experimental-causal-chain design (Studies 3, 3S, 4–5; Spencer et al., 2005). In Study 1, by analyzing nostalgia narratives, we examined whether individuals higher (than lower) on social anxiety more frequently list deficits in interpersonal competence as a trigger of nostalgia. In cross-sectional Study 2, we assessed social anxiety, nostalgia, and interpersonal competence at the trait level, testing the full regulatory model. In experimental Study 3 (and a high-powered replication, Study 3S), we manipulated social anxiety, and assessed nostalgia and interpersonal competence, in search of causal evidence for the model. Finally, in experimental Studies 4 and 5, we manipulated nostalgia and assessed interpersonal competence to examine whether the emotion augments interpersonal competence.
We obtained ethical approval from the corresponding author’s institution. We preregistered Study 3S (https://aspredicted.org/ey3cn.pdf), Study 4 (https://aspredicted.org/nx6gf.pdf), and Study 5 (https://aspredicted.org/73dm2.pdf). We report participants’ ethnicity and education in Supplemental Material. We deposited data and materials at OSF (https://osf.io/5crpu/).
Study 1
In Study 1, we instructed participants to describe circumstances under which they felt nostalgic. We hypothesized that higher (than lower) social anxiety individuals would more frequently identify interpersonal competence deficits as a trigger of nostalgia.
Method
Participants
According to G*Power analysis (Faul et al., 2007), at least 208 participants were needed to detect a medium effect size (odds ratio = 1.5) for a logistic regression design with power of .80 (α = .05). We recruited 262 participants, all students at Peking University, for 3RMB (≈US$ 0.4). (We likewise over-recruited in all studies, hedging against attrition.) We excluded 27 participants for failing three attention checks, as determined a priori, leaving a final N = 235 (165 women, 70 men; Mage = 24.20, SDage = 5.83).
Procedure and Materials
First, participants completed a measure of social anxiety, the 20-item Social Interaction Anxiety Scale (Mattick & Clarke, 1988; e.g., “I feel tense if I am alone with just one other person”; 0 = not at all characteristic or true of me, 4 = extremely characteristic or true of me; M = 1.75, SD = 0.75, α = .94). Next, they thought about what might trigger their nostalgic experiences and described circumstances under which they felt nostalgic (Wildschut et al., 2010). Three research assistants, unaware of the hypothesis, independently coded (0 = absent, 1 = present) descriptions in which participants identified interpersonal competence deficits as a trigger of nostalgia (e.g., “When I find it difficult to fit in with others, I will feel nostalgic”; α = .62). Coders resolved disagreements through discussion.
Results and Discussions
The overall probability of interpersonal competence deficits being reported as a trigger of nostalgia was 16.60% (39/235). We conducted a logistic regression analysis and obtained a positive association between social anxiety and interpersonal competence deficits being coded “present” (odds ratio = 1.76, b = 0.56, SE = 0.26), χ2(1, 235) = 5.12, p = .024. Higher (than lower) social anxiety participants were more likely to identify interpersonal competence deficits as a nostalgia trigger. The results were consistent with the hypothesis.
Study 2
In Study 2, we tested the regulatory model—nostalgia counteracts interpersonal competence deficits associated with social anxiety—with a measurement-of-mediation design.
Method
Participants
We used the Monte Carlo Power Analysis for Indirect Effects application (https://schoemanna.shinyapps.io/mc_power_med/; Schoemann et al., 2017) to determine the requisite sample size. We needed at least 163 participants to reach power of .80, assuming correlations of r = .30 among the independent variable, mediator, and dependent variable. We recruited 265 participants via TurkPrime (Litman et al., 2017) for US$ 0.30. We excluded 16 for noncompletion and 33 for failing all three attention checks, resulting in N = 216 (135 women, 81 men; Mage = 34.79, SDage = 7.65). 1
Procedure
We assessed social anxiety as in Study 1 (M = 1.49, SD = 0.94, α = .91). We assessed nostalgia with the 7-item Southampton Nostalgia Scale (Sedikides et al., 2015; Wildschut & Sedikides, 2022; e.g., “In general, how prone are you to feeling nostalgic?”; 1 = not at all, 7 = very much; M = 3.17, SD = 1.00, α = .92). We assessed interpersonal competence with the 15-item Brief Form of Interpersonal Competence Questionnaire (Coroiu et al., 2015; e.g., “Finding and suggesting things to do with new people whom you find interesting and attractive”; 1 = I’m poor at this, 5 = I’m extremely good at this; M = 3.06, SD = 0.70, α = .89).
Results and Discussion
Correlations
Social anxiety was negatively associated with interpersonal competence, r(216) = −.48, p < .001, but was positively associated with nostalgia, r(216) = .19, p = .005. Nostalgia was associated directionally, but nonsignificantly, with interpersonal competence, r(216) = .11, p = .11.
Mediation Analyses
We conducted a bootstrapping mediational analysis (Hayes, 2022; PROCESS 3.5, Model 4) with 5,000 iterations. We entered social anxiety as independent variable, nostalgia as mediator, and interpersonal competence as dependent variable (Figure 2). Social anxiety was positively and significantly associated with nostalgia (path a), b = 0.20, SE = 0.07, 95% confidence interval (CI) = [0.06, 0.34], t(214) = 2.84, p = .005, b* = .19. Nostalgia, in turn, was positively and significantly associated with interpersonal competence when controlling for social anxiety (Path b), b = 0.15, SE = 0.04, 95% CI = [0.06, 0.23], t(213) = 3.49, p < .001, b* = .21. The indirect effect (denoted as ab) of social anxiety on interpersonal competence via nostalgia was positive and significant, ab = 0.03, SE = 0.01, 95% CI = [0.01, 0.06]. Finally, the residual direct effect of social anxiety on interpersonal competence (controlling for nostalgia) was significant, b = −0.39, SE = 0.04, 95% CI = [−0.48, −0.30], t(213) = −8.77, p < .001, b* = −.52, and more negative than the total effect, b = −0.36, SE = 0.04, 95% CI = [−0.45, −0.27], t(214) = −8.04, p < .001, b* = −.48. These findings indicate inconsistent mediation: The direct effect was in the opposite direction from the indirect effect, and the absolute value of the direct effect was larger than the total effect.

Nostalgia Mediates the Relation Between Social Anxiety and Interpersonal Competence in Study 2
We further tested the regulatory model via causal mediation methods (MacKinnon et al., 2020; Valente et al., 2020), as recently suggested (Wildschut & Sedikides, 2023b). Accordant with the regulatory model, these analyses revealed support for inconsistent mediation of the association between social anxiety and interpersonal competence by nostalgia. Social anxiety (the independent variable or X) and nostalgia (the mediator or M) did not interact to predict interpersonal competence (i.e., there was no indication of moderation or XM interaction; Supplemental Material).
Taken together, participants who felt socially anxious experienced lower interpersonal competence but higher nostalgia. Nostalgia, in turn, predicted higher interpersonal competence when social anxiety was controlled for. The results align with the possibility that nostalgia alleviates the interpersonal competence associated with social anxiety. Yet, these correlational findings are in need of experimental verification.
Study 3
In Study 3, we began testing the regulatory model—nostalgia alleviates interpersonal competence deficits caused by social anxiety—with an experimental causal-chain design. We manipulated social anxiety and measured nostalgia and interpersonal competence. We expected that high (compared with low) social anxiety would increase nostalgia which, in turn, would predict higher interpersonal competence.
Method
Participants
We needed at least 216 participants to reach power of .80, based on the correlations among the independent variable, mediator, and dependent variable of Study 2 (Schoemann et al., 2017). We recruited 300 participants via Credamo for 3RMB (≈US$ 0.4). We excluded three for failing an attention check and three for not complying with instructions, leaving 294 participants (161 women, 133 men; Mage = 27.73, SDage = 5.93). We randomly allocated them to the experimental (n = 149) or control (n = 145) condition.
Procedure and Materials
We manipulated social anxiety with an imagination task we constructed. Participants imagined they were newcomers to a foreign country and were invited to a dinner party. In the high social anxiety (experimental) condition, they imagined that the social customs and social interaction practices were different from their home country, and so they had no idea whether they behaved properly or not. In the low social anxiety (control) condition, they imagined that the social customs and social interaction practices were similar to their home country, and so they were certain they behaved properly. The manipulation check followed. Participants responded to three social anxiety items we created (e.g., “Right now, I feel nervous talking”; 1 = strongly disagree, 5 = strongly agree; M = 3.15, SD = 1.16, α = .89).
Next, we assessed state nostalgia. Participants responded to three items we constructed to fit the manipulation (e.g., “Right now, to what extent do you feel longing for good old memories?”; 1 = not at all, 9 = very much; M = 7.11, SD = 1.37, α = .84). Finally, we assessed state interpersonal competence. We adopted 10 items from the Interpersonal Competence Questionnaire (Buhrmester et al., 1988) to capture interpersonal competence for the dinner party mentioned in the manipulation (e.g., “At the dinner party, I would like to confide in a new friend/date and letting him or her see my softer, more sensitive side”; 1 = strongly disagree, 9 = strongly agree; M = 5.69, SD = 1.60, α = .86).
Results and Discussion
Manipulation Check
Participants in the experimental condition (M = 3.82, SD = 0.88) reported more social anxiety than participants in the control condition (M = 2.46, SD = 1.01), F(1, 292) = 150.15, p < .001, η2 = .34.
Social Anxiety, Nostalgia, and Interpersonal Competence
Participants in the experimental condition (M = 7.29, SD = 1.29) felt more nostalgic than those in the control condition (M = 6.92, SD = 1.43), F(1, 292) = 5.22, p = .023, η2 = .02. Participants in the experimental condition (M = 5.38, SD = 1.58) reported less interpersonal competence than controls (M = 6.01, SD = 1.55), F(1, 292) = 11.80, p = .001, η2 = .04. In all, social anxiety elicited nostalgia and weakened interpersonal competence. Moreover, nostalgia was positively associated with interpersonal competence, r(294) = .13, p = .028.
Mediation Analyses
We conducted a bootstrapping mediational analysis (Hayes, 2022; PROCESS 3.2, Model 4) with 5,000 iterations. We entered the social anxiety manipulation as independent variable (1 = experimental condition, 0 = control condition), nostalgia as mediator, and interpersonal competence as dependent variable (Figure 3). The effect of social anxiety on nostalgia was significant (Path a), b = 0.36, SE = 0.16, 95% CI = [0.05, 0.67], t(292) = 2.28, p = .023, b* = .26. Nostalgia, in turn, was positively and significantly associated with interpersonal competence when controlling for social anxiety (Path b), b = 0.18, SE = 0.07, 95% CI = [0.05, 0.31], t(291) = 2.74, p = .007, b* = .16. The indirect effect of social anxiety on interpersonal competence via nostalgia was positive and significant, ab = 0.07, SE = 0.04, 95% CI = [0.01, 0.14]. The residual direct effect of social anxiety on interpersonal competence was significant, b = −0.69, SE = 0.18, 95% CI = [−1.05, −0.34], t(291) = −3.81, p < .001, b* = −.44, and more negative than the total effect, b = −0.63, SE = 0.18, 95% CI = [−0.99, −0.27], t(292) = −3.44, p < .001, b* = −.39. As in Study 2, we obtained inconsistent mediation: The direct effect was in the opposite direction from the indirect effect, and the absolute value of the direct effect was larger than the total effect. Finally, the results of a causal mediation analysis also supported the regulatory model (Supplemental Material). 2

Nostalgia Mediates the Effect of Social Anxiety on Interpersonal Competence in Study 3
Study 4
In Study 2, nostalgia was directionally but nonsignificantly associated with interpersonal competence at the trait level, although it was associated with it significantly when controlling for social anxiety. In Studies 3 and 3S, nostalgia was positively linked to interpersonal competence at the state level. In Study 4, a further test of the regulatory model via an experimental-causal-chain design, we directly examined the nostalgia–interpersonal competence link: We manipulated nostalgia and assessed interpersonal competence.
Nostalgic episodes are typically social (e.g., a picnic, vacation, or festive dinner; Wildschut et al., 2006), reflecting interpersonal closeness or positive interpersonal interactions. We wondered whether reminders of positive interpersonal interactions per se are responsible for the hypothesized effect of nostalgia on interpersonal competence. Thus, we coded for positive interpersonal interactions in participants’ nostalgic narratives to test this alternative hypothesis.
Method
Participants
We determined the sample size via G*Power (Faul et al., 2007). As the nostalgia manipulation has a medium-sized effect on initiation, disclosure, and emotional support (Wildschut et al., 2006), we surmised that the relations between nostalgia manipulation and interpersonal competence would be medium-sized as well. Thus, we estimated that at least 128 participants were needed to detect a medium effect size (f = 0.25) for a between-subjects design with power of .80 (α = .05). We recruited 180 participants via TurkPrime for US$ 0.30. We excluded eight for failing an attention check and one for not complying with instructions, resulting in N = 171 (94 women, 77 men; Mage = 34.60, SDage = 7.14). We randomly assigned participants to the experimental (n = 78) or control (n = 93) condition.
Procedure and Materials
We manipulated nostalgia (vs. control) with the Event Reflection Task (Sedikides et al., 2015). In the nostalgia condition, participants recalled a nostalgic event, and in the control condition an ordinary event, from their lives. Then they listed four keywords and described in writing the event and how it made them feel. Subsequently, they completed a 3-item manipulation check (Wildschut et al., 2006; e.g., “Right now, I am feeling quite nostalgic”; 1 = strongly disagree, 7 = strongly agree; M = 4.42, SD = 2.20; α = .99).
To code participants’ nostalgic narratives for positive interpersonal interactions, we relied on a 4-item coding scheme developed and used by Van Dijke et al. (2015). A sample item is “Degree of engagement in emotional exchange: e.g., arguing, laughing, the raising of emotions in others and in the self by others (such as making someone cry),” with options ranging from 0 (none) to 3 (very much). Two research assistants, unaware of hypotheses, independently coded the narratives, r(171) = .88, p < .001. We averaged their scores to index positive interpersonal interactions (M = 1.21, SD = 1.30).
Next, we assessed state interpersonal competence with the 15-item Brief Form of Interpersonal Competence Questionnaire (Coroiu et al., 2015). We added the stem: “Thinking about this event makes me feel that I would be capable to . . .” (1 = strongly disagree, 9 = strongly agree; M = 5.40, SD = 2.00, α = .96).
Results and Discussion
Manipulation Check
Participants in the experimental condition (M = 5.92, SD = 1.29) felt more nostalgic than controls (M = 3.15, SD = 2.02), F(1, 169) = 109.12, p < .001, η2 = .39.
Nostalgia and Interpersonal Competence
Participants in the experimental condition (M = 6.07, SD = 1.61) reported higher interpersonal competence than controls (M = 4.83, SD = 2.13), F(1, 169) = 17.97, p < .001, η2 = .10.
Furthermore, participants in the experimental condition recalled more positive interpersonal interactions (M = 1.92, SD = 1.23) than controls (M = 0.62, SD = 1.04), F(1, 169) = 56.59, p < .001, η2 = .25, consistent nostalgia’s sociality. Positive interpersonal interactions were associated with increased interpersonal competence, r(171) = .16, p = .040. However, with positive interpersonal interactions controlled for, the effect of nostalgia on interpersonal competence remained significant, F(1, 168) = 13.26, p < .001, ηp2 = .07. Nostalgia enhanced interpersonal competence.
Study 5
In Study 4, nostalgia strengthened interpersonal competence independently of the positive interpersonal interactions content of nostalgic narratives. In Study 5, we re-tested the alternative hypothesis that the impact of nostalgia on interpersonal competence is due to the emotion’s inherent sociality. That is, we moved away from the Event Reflection Task, which requires nostalgic narratives. In particular, we implemented a nostalgia manipulation that is free of sociality (Dang et al., 2023). We then assessed interpersonal competence.
Method
Participants
Based on Study 4, we expected a medium effect size. Targeting an N of at least 128, we recruited 180 participants via Credamo for 3RMB (≈US$ 0.4). We excluded four for failing two attention checks, leaving 176 participants (112 women, 64 men; Mage = 30.91, SDage = 10.12). We randomly assigned them to the experimental (n = 87) or control (n = 89) condition.
Procedure and Materials
Our manipulation involved pictures (Yang et al., 2021) and features of the nostalgia prototype (Hepper et al., 2012). In the nostalgia condition, participants saw 20 pictures likely to elicit nostalgia (e.g., old banknotes) and 12 central nostalgia features (e.g., keepsakes). In the control condition, participants saw 20 pictures of daily necessities (e.g., chairs) and 12 peripheral nostalgia features (e.g., daydreaming). The authors and two expert colleagues consensually judged that the pictures and features were not social. The manipulation has been used effectively by Dang et al. (2023).
Subsequently, participants (a) brought to mind an event relevant to one of the pictures and characterized by at least three features, and (b) described in writing the event and how it made them feel. Finally, participants completed a nostalgia manipulation check (M = 5.47, SD = 1.50, α = .93) and the state Interpersonal Competence Questionnaire (1 = strongly disagree, 7 = strongly agree; M = 5.19, SD = 1.03, α = .94), as in Study 4.
Results and Discussion
Manipulation Check
As intended, participants in the experimental condition (M = 6.28, SD = 0.52) felt more nostalgic than controls (M = 4.67, SD = 1.70), F(1, 174) = 71.77, p < .001, η2 = .29.
Nostalgia and Interpersonal Competence
Participants in the experimental condition (M = 5.57, SD = 0.75) reported higher interpersonal competence than controls (M = 4.83, SD = 1.14), F(1, 174) = 25.79, p < .001, η2 = .13. Using a nonsocial induction, nostalgia enhanced interpersonal competence.
General Discussion
Individuals with social anxiety struggle in social interactions due to deficits in interpersonal competence (Alden & Taylor, 2004; Chiu et al., 2021; Rodebaugh, 2009). It is crucial to identify effective strategies to alleviate social anxiety. According to the regulatory model, nostalgia helps to alleviate psychological discomfort and maintain equanimity (Wildschut & Sedikides, 2023a, 2023b). We tested the model in the context of social anxiety, nostalgia, and interpersonal competence.
We hypothesized that nostalgia counteracts reductions in interpersonal competence that are due to social anxiety. We evaluated this hypothesis in six studies involving both Chinese and U.S. participants. High social anxiety participants more frequently identified interpersonal competence deficits as a trigger of nostalgia (Study 1). Social anxiety was negatively associated with (Study 2) and decreased interpersonal competence (Studies 3–3S). In addition, social anxiety was positively associated with (Study 2) and elicited (Studies 3–3S) nostalgia. Nostalgia, in turn, was positively associated with (Studies 2, 3, and 3S) and augmented interpersonal competence beyond positive interpersonal interactions (Studies 4 and 5). Taken together, and in support of the regulatory model, nostalgia counteracted deficiencies in interpersonal competence due to social anxiety.
Implications
Our research expands understanding of social anxiety. The literature has indicated that higher social anxiety is related to poorer memory for positive social events (Romano et al., 2020), raising the possibility that socially anxious individuals are less likely to benefit from recall of their past. Our findings qualified this possibility. Social anxiety triggered a reliance on participants’ nostalgic past, which alleviated interpersonal competence deficits attributed to social anxiety. Socially anxious individuals, then, benefit by resorting, not necessarily to autobiographical memory, but rather to nostalgic recollection. Future work might address whether nostalgia allays other deficits due to social anxiety, such as a poor self-image (Hulme et al., 2012).
Our research also enriches the nostalgia literature. The emotion has been known to assuage discomforting states such as disillusionment by increasing meaning in life (Maher et al., 2021), loneliness by increasing a sense of social support (Zhou et al., 2008) or happiness (Zhou et al., 2022), and limited time perspective by increasing psychological well-being (Hepper et al., 2021). These states are intrapersonal. Here, nostalgia assuaged social anxiety by augmenting interpersonal competence. The palliative role of nostalgia extended to the interpersonal domain. Follow-up work might test whether nostalgia palliates discomforting states in affiliations, such as insecurity in romantic relationships and marital burnout (Jafari et al., 2021; Overall et al., 2022).
Furthermore, our findings have practical implications. More than one-in-five individuals are plagued by social anxiety (Jefferies & Ungar, 2020), which hinders integration into peer groups (Kashdan & McKnight, 2010), impedes the establishment of romantic relationships (Porter & Chambless, 2013), conduces to internet addiction (Weinstein et al., 2015), and precipitates substance abuse (Buckner et al., 2021). Nostalgia is a promising means for combating social anxiety. It is easy to implement as it is free of spatial-temporal restrictions, and it can be initiated in multiple ways—not only via brief reflection, pictures, or prototypical features (as here), but also via music, scents, or tastes (Reid et al., 2015, 2023; Sedikides et al., 2022).
Limitations and Future Directions
We relied on self-reports. Follow-up investigations could use multiple assessments of social anxiety, including heart rate and skin conductance (Shalom et al., 2015), and multiple measures of interpersonal competence, including informant reports and behavioral indicators (Buhrmester et al., 1988; Heerey & Kring, 2007). Also, follow-up investigations might implement longitudinal or experience sampling methodology designs to assess long-term or dynamic relations among the construct of interest while recruiting participants from a broader range of cultures.
Coda
Social anxiety has several undesirable consequences, including hindering the formation and maintenance of social relationships. In a test of the regulatory model, nostalgia counteracted the negative influence of social anxiety on interpersonal competence. Nostalgia is an accessible and effective psychological resource that can be used to cope with social anxiety and its consequences.
Supplemental Material
sj-docx-1-spp-10.1177_19485506231187680 – Supplemental material for Nostalgia Counteracts Social Anxiety and Enhances Interpersonal Competence
Supplemental material, sj-docx-1-spp-10.1177_19485506231187680 for Nostalgia Counteracts Social Anxiety and Enhances Interpersonal Competence by Yuwan Dai, Tonglin Jiang, Tim Wildschut and Constantine Sedikides in Social Psychological and Personality Science
Footnotes
Handling Editor: Miyamoto Yuri.
Declaration of Conflicting Interests
The author(s) declared no potential conflicts of interest with respect to the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article.
Funding
The author(s) disclosed receipt of the following financial support for the research, authorship, and/or publication of this article: This research was supported by the grant awarded to Tonglin Jiang by the National Natural Science Foundation of China (Grant Number 32271127).
Ethical Approval
All studies presented in this article have been conducted according to APA ethical standards for the treatment of human subjects. We obtained ethical approval from the corresponding author’s institution.
Data Availability
We preregistered Study 3S (https://aspredicted.org/ey3cn.pdf), Study 4 (https://aspredicted.org/nx6gf.pdf), and Study 5 (https://aspredicted.org/73dm2.pdf). We deposited data and materials at OSF (
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